Have you ever thought, “This year has really flown by”, or have you wished the year would end and you could start fresh? Well, this was my year. I have said and thought both of those things.
Let me tell you what I was doing this time last year. (12/2023) During the month of December, I take time to reflect on the previous year and pray about what God has planned for us for the upcoming year. I love that special time in the morning when I am alone with God, the word, and everything is quiet. I look forward to searching the scriptures and listening for the Holy Spirit to guide me into the next year. This time it was no different. I wrote down in my journal what I felt the Lord was telling me on January 1st.
An excerpt from my journal – January 1, 2024
“Every year you seem to give me a scripture or lay something on my heart for the next year. Today my mind is on “time” and not to watch it waste away, but last night, I sensed 2024 would be the year of “change”. Hopefully, good changes but, there would be many changes this year. Part of me is looking toward 2024 with great anticipation but also with a sense of apprehension. Change can be scary, fun, overwhelming, and challenging. I do know that whatever is coming, I need you more now than ever.”

I had no idea what was coming but God did! Now to some people being snowed in for 9 days with temperatures in the teens is a nightmare, but for me it was a time of peace and rest. Games, movies, snow cream, and hot chocolate with my trapped teenage daughter and husband was priceless. From January 15 to the 24th I rested, watched the peaceful snow and spent some time catching up on those things around the house that I never seem to have time to do. Sitting by the fireplace getting extra quiet time with the Lord was going to be essential in the next few months. It was just what I needed before those storms began rolling in one after another.

January 29th, I received a call that my mom who lived a couple of hours away had fallen and was being rushed to the hospital. I quickly threw some things together and hit the road. Mom had passed out and hit her head on the nightstand. She had a major concussion, a broken neck that required surgery, and many other issues we would soon learn about. Because of her condition and not being able to hear well someone needed to stay with her. Seventeen days later, Mom was released to leave the hospital as long as someone was staying with her, so my sister took care of her and I was able to go home for a couple of days, repack and check on my family. It was short lived because she was only home a little over a week when she had to go back. This time her neck and left leg were in a brace and she couldn’t do anything for herself. She stayed with my sister while I went home and prepared our house for her to come and stay with us. Mom moved in with us on March 15th. Mom had to have 24/7 care, PT, OT and nurses coming in and out, along with another long hospital stay with pneumonia. This was a huge change not only for my mom but for everyone. This, I would soon find out was not the only change that was coming in 2024.
As I look back at everything that has happened, I find it hard to believe that all these things happened in a years’ time. It seemed the sand in our hourglass was running quicker than usual. We have had many changes in the past 12 months, some exciting and some tragic but definitely major changes in our life. My husband was in a car accident and not only totaled the truck, but he had to have meniscus surgery. Both of our two oldest daughters had to have surgery this year, and our oldest daughter moved four hours away so we do not get to see her as much as we would like. Our youngest daughter passed her driving test and received her driver’s license. (New teenage driver is always scary) We had several friends go home to be with Lord this year and one close friend diagnosed with ALS. Our pastor and close friend of over 20 years retired and God raised up a young pastor to place into our pulpit. Our youngest son found out his company was laying him off and our oldest son and his wife are in the middle of building a home and moving. Our oldest grandson and his wife told us we were going to be great-grandparents in 2025. Our youngest daughter got a new job and a part in the musical “Annie”. We have been getting estimates on adding a mother-in-law suite to our home and trying to pack up my mom’s house and making decisions about selling her house and figuring out what she needs. I have only just touched the surface of 2024 in this blog, and I can still say, “this year has flown by” and “please let this year end and let next year not be so crazy”.
The year 2024 didn’t just seem to be the year of change but also of craziness. But God is so faithful. I didn’t write this blog to show you the things that happened to us this year but to show you how God worked and showed up in the past year. God not only gave me rest in the beginning of the year, but He was there every minute of every day! He gave my husband strength to handle everything at home not only during my absence but while I was caring for mom and other things at home. God protected my husband during the accident and my mom during her falls in ways it would take an entire day to tell you about. I watched Him put people in her life each step of the journey to help her, encourage her, and love her. I saw her smile and witness to others, even though she may not have known it at the time. God gave her a night nurse that looked like my son so that when he came in to check on her, she wasn’t afraid. My mom is now out of bed, getting out and going to church and doing things with the family. I have watched as He worked in the lives of my children changing situations and circumstances and answering prayers that I have been praying for years. He has provided jobs, taken care of us financially in so many ways, and placed good friends along the way to pray and be there for love and support.
This year of change has been scary, overwhelming, exciting, challenging, and tiring but God has also made me see Him in ways I would never have if this year had been easier. My faith was tested, I had to trust Him for answers. I had to lean on Him and ask for peace regardless of the situation. As He placed our name on other’s hearts, I saw God move. We received Bible verses and words of encouragement, devotions, phone calls, songs, money, and cards were sent either through mail or text messages. God is amazing and works in ways that we could never think or imagine. I was blessed this year to sing “Noel” in our church Christmas program. As I practiced, the words seemed to penetrate my heart. “Come and see what God has done”. “Immanuel, God with us”! Perfect words to sum up 2024. Come and see what God has done…. He gave me time with my mom, healing for my children, a new addition to our family, and peace that only He can give. My husband and I are having to adapt to many changes, but God is good all the time. He has a plan and a purpose for everything. As I look forward to 2025, I wonder what His plan is for us. Whatever it is, I know He will be there with us through every moment of it.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-15

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